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THE COUNTERFEIT SPOUSE

Counterfeit – to imitate something authentic, with the intent to replace the original or otherwise to deceive individuals into believing that the fake is of equal or greater value than the real thing. The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. When you encounter the counterfeit, you, something in you or something in your lifeContinue reading “THE COUNTERFEIT SPOUSE”

HEALING THE WOUNDED SOUL FROM TRAUMA OR NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

“Just because trauma ended up making me take steps to become a better person doesn’t mean it couldn’t have made my life turn out for the worst. Anyone whose life isn’t more beautiful post-trauma, isn’t necessarily ‘doing it wrong’. Trauma didn’t exist to make you better. It existed to kill you”. Healing is not linear,Continue reading “HEALING THE WOUNDED SOUL FROM TRAUMA OR NARCISSISTIC ABUSE”

THE STRANGE WOMAN & THE EVIL MAN

“For she has cast down many wounded & all who were slain by her were strong men. Her house is the way to hell. Descending to the chambers of death” (Proverbs 7:26) The bible addresses the strange woman in so many ways. She is called a “foolish woman”, the “harlot”, “loose woman” “seductress,” “adulteress,” “waywardContinue reading “THE STRANGE WOMAN & THE EVIL MAN”

BITTER ROOTS

THE ROOT CAUSE OF ALL MENTAL PERSONALITY DISORDERS “Hurt people, hurt people”. Hurt people who do not want to forgive and heal, hurt people. The wounds we don’t heal, fuel our decisions and actions tomorrow. Decisions and actions fuelled by bitterness. Bitterness causes us to not see clearly, it clouds our view of things. AContinue reading “BITTER ROOTS”

HOW TO DISEMPOWER & DISENGAGE NARCISSISTS

“Your descendants will possess the gates of their enemies” – Genesis 22:17 The Jezebel spirit is very mischievous and crafty. It is a camouflaging spirit that hides itself too well, so unless you have the Holy Spirit, spiritual discernment and understand demonology, it will always take time before you finally figure out what you areContinue reading “HOW TO DISEMPOWER & DISENGAGE NARCISSISTS”

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF NARCISSISTS

KEYS FACTS ABOUT NARCISSISTS & THE JEZEBEL SPIRIT The Jezebel spirit is a perfection-based spirit. It will frustrate you expecting perfection from you and is fully convinced it is perfect, even though it’s not. Most narcissists also have obsessive compulsive personality disorder (note that OCD is different from OCPD). The Jezebel spirit views loving, kind,Continue reading “THE PSYCHOLOGY OF NARCISSISTS”

CODEPENDENCY : THE FRUIT OF UNGODLY SOUL TIES

Codependency is an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who is affected with a pathological addiction condition. The people rely too much on each other emotionally, with one person caring for the other. Codependency is formed as a result of four things : a controlling relationship, premarital sex, broken identity andContinue reading “CODEPENDENCY : THE FRUIT OF UNGODLY SOUL TIES”