KEYS FACTS ABOUT NARCISSISTS & THE JEZEBEL SPIRIT
The Jezebel spirit is a perfection-based spirit. It will frustrate you expecting perfection from you and is fully convinced it is perfect, even though it’s not. Most narcissists also have obsessive compulsive personality disorder (note that OCD is different from OCPD).
The Jezebel spirit views loving, kind, helpful and quiet people as weak. Anytime narcissists encounter a person who does good by them, they automatically view them as someone to just exploit be it in friendships or relationships. They will take, take and take and give nothing back.
Demons can sometimes work through demonic networks. This is when two or more people with the jezebel spirit gang up on you. Narcissists always work with “flying monkeys”, flying monkeys are actually narcissists too with the Jezebel spirit. If you are confused as to why people who don’t know are spreading rumours about you etc, this is why.
People with the Jezebel spirit have extremely fragile egos and believe people who bruise their egos in anyway should be severely punished.
Narcissists have a belief that they are very special people who only deserve to be with other special people aswell, this is in friendships and relationships.
Narcissists have no sense of identity whatsoever so they can morph into different multiple personalities. They watch closely whoever they admire, they are jealous of or spend a lot of time with and copy their personality, laugh, dressing etc.
When two non-disordered people get into a relationship, they go through bad and good times, create special memories, bonds gets stronger as years go by and this gets them closer and they become loyal to each other. Narcissists don’t care about all that. Nobody is exempt from their betrayal and being dropped (discarded). They are only loyal to you, if they have a present need for you. When there is no longer a perceived need for you, the narcissist will show you their ruthless other side.
Narcissists never give closure. In normal relationships people can decide to temporarily or permanently separate. This is explicitly stated, both parties take responsibility to the part they played on the demise of the relationship. Narcissists are too child like and immature to do this. Whilst you are still wondering, what’s going on with a narcissist after a breakup. They are probably dating the 3rd of 4th person and if you contact them, their grandiosity will call you obsessive.
People with the Jezebel spirit are entitled users, because when they get into friendships or relationships with people. They give the other person the role of their failed parent which is unrealistic. This means the relationship is doomed from the get go. If you do anything for them, the appreciation is not heartfelt and they will not reciprocate neither. If you fail in anyway the parental role, they will paint you black and hate you. “I felt my role was that of either the man to his stereotypical hysterical woman or that of the mother to his petulant spoiled child” – a woman describing a relationship with a man with borderline personality disorder.
Jezebel loves pity parties; narcissists always make sure they let you know they are victims in the beginning of the relationship. Many people that experienced Jezebel’s hurricane will tell you that in the end, they could fully see these spirit’s wicked nature and their hearts, finances or health had been wrecked. However somehow, they felt like the narcissist was the victim instead and still wanted to take care of them. If you grew up in a dysfunctional home, your care giver, fixer side will start working against you when you meet Jezebel.
The vulnerable narcissists especially of the younger generation, views sex as love. So when two narcissists get together, the vulnerable narcissist can stay in a toxic relationship, because sex is present.
There is a misconception that only women seduce, but men are even worser seducers. Male narcissists operate under a seducing spirit full time. They often have feminine hairstyles, nose piercings, wear “sexy” deep V neck shirts. They will double tap on your pictures first to signal they “want you” etc.
CHOOSE THIS DAY WHO YOU SHALL SERVE, JESUS OR JEZEBEL
Jezebel is not just a fictitious character that lived a long time ago, the Jezebel spirit is still alive and running rampant today. The book of Revelations talks about how Jezebel will have children in the last days. The Jezebel spirit is the master mind of radical feminism, racism, lingerie models, the non-discretion, sexual liberal movement, the big butt obsession movement, seductive clothing, narcotics, psychedelics, gossip tabs like the “Shade room”, pro-abomination legislative governments, the ghosting culture, the movement of replacing God with the “universe”, the obsessive mountain climbers who worship nature and constantly fall to their death and other strange phenomenon out there now. Jezebel and Ahab are in full control of this world. Just like God appoints vessels to use, Satan appoints vessels to use too. Whoever a person makes themselves available to, will determine who they will be used by. Jezebel is a principality, which has a network of demons that it controls and works with. A person will never have one demon, because demons travel in packs. This is why people with disorders never have one disorder, most people with borderline disorder always overlap and have a couple of narcissistic personality disorder traits too or also generalised anxiety disorder etc. Narcissists are not only lustful, they are also liars, then they are also cruel and it goes on and on. Jezebel and Ahab are two familiar spirits that work in harmony to achieve a similar goal, but with Ahab subservient to Jezebel. Familiar spirits are the manifestation in the physical realm of those two people you see with absolutely nothing in common, but their negative characteristics like gossiping, jealousy, cruelty, lust etc, which makes them the best of friends. However, unlike God’s kingdom with order, demons have no order, thats why sometimes you will see Jezebel and Ahab using each other ruthlessly, because Satan is a prankster, who only cares about his end goal and nobody else. The Jezebel spirit is the highest-ranking demon right after Lucifer. Back in the days of Elijah we see this spirit through Jezebel dominating and controlling over 450 false prophets, which shows the power that this spirit carries.
BROTHER AHAB – (how the Jezebel spirit presents itself in males)
• Covert narcissist (introvert)
• Worships women & think they are goddesses. He adores women more than God, but is generally also disrespectful to women and misogynistic
• Passive aggressive
• Avoids conflict at all cost
• Occasionally feel frustrated and leaves the home when married
• Double mindedness between God and Jezebel’s heathen ways
• Competitive macho spirit
• Gives conditional love in relationships
• Loves nudity & sensual women, addicted to pornography
• Ineffective communication and mood swings
• Loves initiating arguments
• Attracted to loud & stubborn women
• Likes to be lead & taught by women
• Views parenting as playing with the children, but avoids the “unpleasant” duties of providing & correcting
• Place friends above family duties
• Physically abuses women
• Doubts his own abilities concerning everything
• Low self esteem, constantly need assurance from a woman
• People pleaser
• Obsessed with wanting to be accepted
• Channel rage & frustration internally
• Appear like a good Christian, but have poor boundaries every time Jezebel shows up
• Expects a woman to be the primary provider in the home, whilst wasting all his money on alcohol or other women
• Self-delusional about everything, often tell themselves things are fine in their life when they are not
• Lazy, careless, irresponsible
• Self-centred and selfish
• Workaholic, alcoholic, drug addiction
• Emotionally unstable
• As a result of the spirit of lust, Ahab often has multiple children that he doesn’t take care of
Ahab fits the diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, he always has the Jezebel spirit too it’s just that the ahab spirit is more dominant. Ahab is the guy society calls “jerk”, “f-boy”, the guy that you ask, “so what are we”, the guy always caught up in a situation ship. At the core of Ahab is lust. Ahab always has a lot of female friends for his narcissistic supply. Ahab is a weak, passive man, because his manhood was castrated by Jezebel in the spirit. The Jezebel spirit seeks to dominate men. Ahab is addicted to everything Jezebel stands for, pornography, masturbation, fornication, alcohol, drugs etc, so he came into agreement with her in the spiritual realm and married her. When this marriage was established, this meant that Ahab would never have a peaceful successful relationship ever again in the physical realm this is the operation of “spiritual husbands and wives”. Ahab and Jezebel get along so well, because they both represent darkness. As we said before Ahab is married in the spirit to Jezebel, which means through the course of Ahab’s life, Jezebel will send him women with the Jezebel spirit only to date and fornicate with or commit adultery with and when he sleeps with them. He will be sleeping with the spirit of Jezebel not a person and he will be solidifying their marriage and making their covenant stronger. One of Jezebel’s false gods was called Ashtoreth, which was a marine spirit that was “the god of fertility, sex and war”. When people with the Ahab and Jezebel spirit indulge in premarital sex, masturbation, alcohol, etc they are offering the goddess Ashtoreth idol worship. Demons draw strength and power from idol worship.
The spirit of lust has a lot of people looking foolish. It is an unquenchable spirit that will make you stoop extremely low and have you sleeping with absolutely anybody to try and quench it. If we don’t seek deliverance, this spirit will severely ruin our lives.
Men with the Ahab spirit often drink alcohol and alcohol goes well together with the vagabond spirit : so poverty, whorish women, fornication and adultery. When people are drunk it gives the devil the opportunity to use them easier. Jezebel always makes sure, she plants her female followers and workers, with her spirit in places where Ahab drinks so that they can fornicate or commit adultery together. So, I beseech you young women of this generation, please stay away from men who intoxicates themselves with “spirits” aka the devil’s juice and are drunkards, you will save yourself a lot of heartache in the long run. To think being half awake is better than having a fully conscious mind, when we are instructed to consistently watch and pray as the devil is always roaming around seeking whom to devour is foolishness of this world. The person you marry ultimately determines how you will fulfil your destiny. Men who do not want to turn away from their wicked lifestyles and be delivered should be left alone to waste their lives away by themselves.
Ahab is a very wicked fella, who has a cold heart of stone just like Jezebel. Ahab is wicked, but the wickedness is done subtly and discreetly. Jezebel is the snake and Ahab is the chameleon. In 1 Kings 21, Ahab started coveting Nabaoth’s vineyard and then he asked Nabaoth for the land in exchange of money. Nabaoth refused, because it was his ancestral heritage. Ahab then went to report to Jezebel and she falsely charged him with treason and blasphemy and Nabaoth was stoned to death. It was customary that anyone who commits such heinous acts would automatically lose their land. Jezebel then gave the land to Ahab. From this we see that Ahab and Jezebel have a relationship of using each other, but Jezebel gains much more in the relationship than Ahab, because she not only dominates Ahab, but rules the land and it’s constitutions and the little that Jezebel does for Ahab is done, so that she can keep on gaining much more without Ahab questioning anything. Ahab doesn’t realise Jezebel bewitched him, through an ungodly soul tie. There is no real love between Jezebel and Ahab, but them being stuck to each other is another way of the demonic realm to torment them. Ahab needs to receive knowledge of the truth and get delivered or else he will be bound by Jezebel all his life.
• Overt narcissist (extrovert)
• Prostitutes self
• Lies compulsively and believes their own lies
• Lack of remorse, justifies hurting people
• Aggressive and short tempered
• Claims to be religious, but has superficial devotion to God
• Enabler of Ahab’s weak manhood
• Will not forgive
• Throws tantrums when they don’t get their way
• Inability to change unless it benefits them
Abuses people emotionally, verbally and physically
• Ignores people. A classic ploy of a controller is to ignore you when you disagree or call them out on their foolishness. It also refuses to admit wrong.
• Attack ministers and those anointed as to strip the anointing. Hates true prophets. It attacks and falsely accuses them, trying to kill the prophetic voice in the process.
• Tries to ruin harmony and unions. It gets people fighting and causes major dissension, strife and chaos. It causes a lot of in-fighting, back-biting and malicious type gossiping even amongst the best of relationships. Triangulate others to fight their battles. It is a major peace disturber.
• Talks incessantly and is insubordinate.
• Never content.
• Is vengeful. Since a Jezebel spirit is never wrong, if you contradict or confront one, get ready to become its worst enemy. Jezebel will stop at nothing to destroy your reputation.
• Attempts to make you look like you are Jezebel instead.
• Only do their own will, never God’s.
• Give the appearance of repentance, then attack.
• Very judgemental, critical, condescending, demeaning and undermine everyone. Over demanding and manipulating.
Gossips about everyone especially people that are meant to be close to them.
• Need to be constantly praised.
• Have a possessive love
• Have illegitimate authority.
• Are convincing liars.
• The Jezebel spirit gives its host false prophecies, false words, false dreams, and false visions – all in an attempt to make its host look more spiritual than they really are, and to also lure as many people into its web, so that it can build up its own base and following.
• Use others to carry out their evil plans.
• Work alone, they only use others.
• Seek positions of authority in order to control, discredit and reach their goal.
• Bring fear, you feel like you are walking on egg shells around this person.
• Charismatic type of energy, easy to get along with, strong drawing power.
• Will go after anyone in a leadership position, because it cannot dominate without climbing to the top. This is pastors of churches, youth ministers, worship leaders, leaders of prayer groups and bible study, husbands as the head of households, the popular guy or girl, supervisors, and upper level management of different companies and corporations.
• Runs in tandem with a mocking spirit, makes fun of and makes light of evil things or evil jokes.
• Will occasionally expose itself in pictures (sexual poses and taking pictures half naked and posting them openly)
• Maximum pride and jealousy
• Highly lustful and seductive, highly self-centred and narcissistic.
• Will always seek to be the centre of attention.
• Cold, ruthless, cunning, calculating, very combative, confrontational and craves conflict.
• Never wrong
Jezebel is very superficial. She is adorned with everything artificial, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake hair, fake body parts, fake everything to advertise her false beauty for the wrong intentions. She is very flashy, and she is also only attracted to people who are superficial and flashy too. Jezebel doesn’t care about character or inner beauty, she only cares about people’s looks, money, influence and social status. The bible says it’s all about modesty and moderation, but Jezebel is vain, moderation will never be in her vocabulary. Jezebel loves to recruit disciples and followers for herself, because she believes she is God. When you meet Jezebel, she will probe you for information about your life and your intimate secrets, so that she can later use them against you. She will pretend to relate to your pain and as if she understands you more than anybody else in this world, so that you can keep her close, but this is all done to destroy you and assassinate your character later on. Jezebel uses your weaknesses and vulnerabilities against you. Jezebel loves to make people co-dependent on her strength. She loves when people idolize her and feel like they can’t live without her. Normally when you go to other people with your burdens and pain, they will direct you to God, because they know God is the ultimate problem solver. However, Jezebel will not do this, she will make you feel like everything is in her hands instead and she is the solution to your problems. Jezebel is a great teacher concerning every topic, she likes being on the forefront teaching something even in the church to usurp leadership. The Jezebel spirit loves masquerading itself as someone who hears God more than everybody else. Jezebel will make you believe that you need her approval before you can do anything in your life, even between you and God. If you become friends with someone or start dating someone and then all of a sudden you start losing your desire for the things of God that you used to have. You are dealing with a human satanic agent. The bible says Jezebel managed to turn the heart of Ahab away from God.
Jezebel is a huge fan of unprotected sex, because she wants to kill and destroy through this avenue. Ahab will mistake this for them having a “deep” bond. This is also how Jezebel creates broken homes, because Jezebel will often get pregnant and Ahab will deny responsibility or Ahab and Jezebel will just stick to each other, because of the baby. The demonic duo will be stuck together and work together against God, gossiping as a couple, being cruel to relatives as a couple, turning against their own children etc. People with the Jezebel spirit also always have aspirations of getting to leadership roles they have no passion for, but out of insecurity and a desire for ungodly control.
Jezebel loves to embarrass people, especially in public. She strategically waits to blast you openly with her condescending “advice”. Jezebels loves to make sure everyone knows she has rejected you (have you guys ever seen those women on social media, who screenshot to blast a man who respectfully pursued them or a man in a relationship pursues them and they openly tell the girlfriend, “come get your man” CRINGES). When you are dealing with Jezebel, you feel so intimidated and shrink, you are not entirely yourself. Jezebel normally has mood swings and very impulsive. For example when it comes to communication, sometimes they reply you with aggression, sometimes they will give you complete silent treatment, sometimes they will not reply for a few days. You are afraid to correct this person, because you know they retaliate with insults or the friendship will be automatically over.
MY EXPERIENCE WITH NARCISSISTS
I have dealt with a lot of narcissists, but I will only give you just two detailed explanations in this instance. A narcissist that I encountered online and another one at a church. Last year I encountered a young man on Christian twitter (a community of Christian believers on twitter). He was very popular on there and greatly loved by other Christians; he preached the gospel of repentance daily and helped people through his twitter. We followed each other there on twitter, however one day I corrected him on his bizarre views on colourism that he had openly tweeted, I sent him a private message. He didn’t respond to the message and I was unfollowed immediately and he tweeted a meme which said, “if you are mad at people’s preferences, get help” and then also tweeted, “when you are rude and bothersome, dropping your phone is the quickest way to humble you”. The weeks to follow after those tweets were shambles. He spoke to a Christian friend of his privately there on twitter. He made up some lies like all narcissist do and then the girl started raging at me and insulting me every other day, but also preaching on twitter too (the foolery lol). This girl then started gossiping and spreading the rumours of his lies for him. The narcissist decided to increase more heat. There was a girl that God had put on my heart to help, who was battling the sin of homosexuality. I had embraced this girl as a sister in Christ and was slowly helping her, however the narcissist managed to turn her against me as well. He sent her a message privately. She started insulting me openly too and “exposing me”. So now I had two narcissists on World War 2 smear campaign against me, whilst the narcissist who had orchestrated all of this kept his page spotless, pretending like he didn’t know what was going on, retweeting my tweets (ain’t the devil trifling). Jezebel was notorious for wanting to stop the work of the Holy Spirit in churches and in the lives of people and would target God’s prophets and servants. Back then I used to share the word of God on twitter and had an impact, that’s why I was targeted by Jezebel. Jezebel wants you to idolise her so that you can’t serve God. I got off twitter for a little bit after this scandal, then I made a new twitter and on the new twitter, God quadrupled my influence and impact more than it used to be on my old twitter, regardless of the devil trying to discredit me. Jezebel can never be able to shut God’s voice.
My second experience of someone with the Jezebel spirit wasn’t within proximity per say. I used to go to this sound doctrine church a few years ago that was led by a powerful Zimbabwean man of God. He had branches all over the world, running for decades, he was a powerful, anointed man of God, until he was attacked by a Jezebel spirit that was operating under a woman youth leader in that church who was from Botswana and they started committing adultery. Eventually this was exposed, the church split into two and now this man is living an unrepentant life, watering the word of God with that woman by her side, traveling and running ministry together. He betrayed the woman he had been married to for decades and had founded that church with. Which shows you how once the Jezebel spirit controls you it makes you it’s puppet and it makes you give it allegiance and loyalty, even when it is not worthy of that. God gave us minds to think for ourselves and to make our own judgements, but once you are controlled by a Jezebel spirit you no longer think for yourself; it pretty much makes your mind redundant and it makes every decision for you. The host of the spirit can pretend to be your friend, lover etc, but they are a rival that knows you better than you know them. They will study your strengths, weaknesses and keep vulnerable information in a little safe so that they can use them against you. The only true friends’ people with the Jezebel spirit will have are the people who will get duped into falling into their web of deceit and lies, where they will now become their mindless followers. These people will have all their true friends leave them, because no one wants to be around this kind of evil spirit and around these kinds of negative, evil, and destructive personality traits.
WHAT DO I DO IF IM MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST?
Narcissists are NOT Christians. Christianity is founded on love and Christians do the will of their father, they live by God’s commands. So technically you can separate from narcissists under (2 Corinthians 6:14), because you are actually unequally yoked with an unbeliever. The Jezebel spirit seeks to project low self-esteem and depression on people so much that they end up killing themselves or it will end up killing you by itself, through its uncontrollable rage. If you are in a relationship with a person with a Jezebel spirit, you will never be able to fulfil God’s purpose for your life neither, because this spirit will try and hinder this. So, you need to confront your spouse and tell them that they have a Jezebel spirit and should get deliverance and seek professional help. If they refuse, then you should separate, to not continue enduring the abuse and whilst you are separated seek God’s face concerning what to do next. Sometimes God will tell you to divorce them, because he sees that they have decided to die in their sins, sometimes he will tell you to pray for them and wait. If you get to a place of divorce, please understand that God hates divorce, but he values your life more, I have seen people dying in abusive relationships. If you are just a boyfriend and girlfriend and you are dating a narcissist though, break up with them immediately and move on. God will bring you someone after his heart. Narcissists are not part of God’s plan for anyone’s life, unless they repent.
MESSAGE TO NARCISSISTS
Narcissists are used by the devil intentionally and inadvertently. They are fully aware of their wicked behaviours and intentionally inflict pain on other people, but they are inadvertently unaware of the extent of the damage they cause and how much the devil is using them to destroy their own lives aswell. Everyone has been through something in this life, but not everyone turned into a narcissist, because they rejected that spirit. You cannot still be a victim at 30 or 50 years etc, because of something that happened when you were an infant or a teenager. Healing begins with taking responsibility aswell. God is very furious with narcissists, because they decided to make Jezebel and themselves their own God. “Cursed is the man that put his trust in the flesh” (Jeremiah 17:5). When people pray the fiery prayers declaring war using Psalms against evil spirits that you comfortably accommodate in your flesh, do not be surprised when destruction comes knocking at your door. The Jezebel’s that don’t repent get thrown down the wall and they get humbled. Return to your first love and leave your fake romance with Jezebel. Jezebel only gives people bread crumbs, when there is a full banquet waiting for you at the table of the Lord.
There are many narcissists who go to church, even though God would never regard them as Christians. This shows us that, the devil doesn’t mind you going to church, you can even go to mid-week bible study too if you want, as long as you don’t meet Jesus there. There are so many ichabod churches now (the glory of God is not found there), where the pastors and their wives, the prophets, the praise and worship team, the ushers etc are all under the influence of the Jezebel and Ahab spirit. When the narcissist goes to churches like these of course they won’t receive freedom, because you can’t deliver others in an area that you are still bound yourself. Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom especially, in the form of truth that transforms and sets free.
“The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” – 2 Corinthians 4:4
Obeying the spirit of Jezebel will come with temporary, carnal rewards, whilst choosing to not obey Jezebel will come with eternal, everlasting rewards. There are many people in this world under the influence of the Jezebel spirit and its job is to destroy you. Destroy your soul, your relationships, your sanity, your finances, your health, and your desire for the things of God and when you are empty leave you for the next target. I have seen this spirit literally play some people right over the edge of a cliff where they ended up losing everything and this was all, because they were too blind and ignorant to see what was really going on behind the scenes in the spiritual realm. Beloveds and brethren, STAY WOKE.
God bless you